in a domestic discipline household the act of administering punishment typically falls to the head of the household (HoH) however it is appropriate for the mother/wife to assist in the physical correction of other subordinates living within the home, or administer punishment when the HoH is not available. However subordinates should never assist in her mother’s punishment nor should be present under any circumstances.

A girl trying to avoid discipline is a sign of a corrupted soul, and should be whipped until the corruption has been driven away.  A good wife/daughter would never offer resistance to discipline coming from a loving husband/father. And trust that he only has her best interests in mind.

A girl trying to avoid discipline is a sign of a corrupted soul, and should be whipped until the corruption has been driven away.  A good wife/daughter would never offer resistance to discipline coming from a loving husband/father. And trust that he only has her best interests in mind.

Being disciplined at home for most couples is by far the most commonplace.  It helps to have a ritualistic routine/place for discipline to happen.  So when you are sent to your bedroom, the family room, the woodshed, or even your special punishment room you know exactly what’s going to take place.  It is also important to keep the area free of clutter and clean.  Along with whatever tools are used for physical punishment with easy access and organized.  Just like my dad would say “put the tools back in its proper place” typically he was referring to the screwdriver but the advice is still relevant.

The position you’re disciplined in can be just as effective of a punishment as the actual whipping itself.  Shame and embarrassment can be much more of a motivator for proper behavior than the sting of the strap.  Having to expose yourself so completely even to someone you’re intimate with and then remain still as your disciplined is a very effective tool, and should only be reserved for the most disobedient of girls.

May be hard

In the waiting room waiting to see the doctor. Time for physical, it may be difficult to explain the bruises on my bottom. Hope he will buy “the I fell down excuse.”

HoH’s Remember, she is not made of glass you’re not going to break her.  If you’re going to take the time to scold her, and put her over your knee make sure the spanking is not some playful game.  Make it hurt, make her regret her misdeeds, make her cry real tears.  Forgiveness comes after not before.

HoH’s Remember, she is not made of glass you’re not going to break her.  If you’re going to take the time to scold her, and put her over your knee make sure the spanking is not some playful game.  Make it hurt, make her regret her misdeeds, make her cry real tears.  Forgiveness comes after not before.

Don’t think you’re safe just because you’re in the car.  It is his duty to discipline you when it is needed no matter where you are, often the car along with a roadside rest provides a suitable spanking place.

To the head of the house, remember discussions about behavior and the need to administer a spanking do not mean you yell at her out of anger or frustration.  Keep calm showing that you are in control and that you love her.  Even if you are very frustrated with her behavior, you never want to make it seem that your love is being taken away.

To the dependent, you must remember that you are being punished even if you don’t agree with it.  Do not argue with him or talk back, in fact it’s best to remain silent as you are being scolded saying nothing but make sure you acknowledge you understand what he is saying by nodding your head.  Once the spanking is over the HoH should give you an opportunity to express your feelings.  It’s okay to explain why you felt the spanking was unfair, but do not do it as an argument, simply tell him this is how you felt but then always thank him for the love he has shown you and acknowledge you will do better.

Punishment Entry

My mentor is now requiring me to make posts about punishments I have received, partly to keep a record of punishments given like a digital punishment book, and partly to shame and embarrass me.  So here’s my first entry

Punishment entry for Sunday, June 16, 2013

Offense:
I had a job interview at a clinical lab for a data gathering specialist position.  It was at Saturday, June 15 at 1 PM.  The job offered much higher pay good benefits and flexible hours.  However I felt very insecure about the interview and instead of going I found it easier to avoid the situation and not go, telling my mentor that I had gone.  I was not trying to deceive him, I just did not want to explain myself and how my nerves got the best of me.  After he started questioning me about the details my story fell apart and I confessed that I had not gone.

Punishment:

1.       On Saturday I was grounded with the bedtime at 8:30 PM and was only allowed to wear my punishment dress until his arrival Sunday afternoon.

2.       On my mentors arrival around 2 PM I had to contemplate my decisions by facing the wall with my hands on my head holding a piece of paper to the wall with my nose for two hours.  My dress was raised exposing my bottom and I could not talk or move for any reason.  If I let the paper fall 15 minutes would be added to my time for each time it fell.

3.       I had to remove my dress and lay over his lap naked where I was given a 10 minute spanking with a wooden paddle with no warm-up or breaks.

4.       For the next two weeks I have to stand facing the wall for one hour a day.

5.       I had to write this punishment notice and ask others if there was any other punishment I deserved or if this was sufficient.

Aftercare:

We talked quite a bit about my anxiety issues and my low self-esteem.  He comforted me and reassured me that I was still loved, and forgiven.

Thank you for reading this, and if you would like to help in my punishment you can send punishment suggestions to my e-mail at shygirl03@rocketmail.com or to my tumbler address  which I will have to share on tumbler and twitter.  Also I have to answer any questions honestly, no matter what the question is.

Any replies will be posted by Sunday, June 23, 2013 if any are received.

Unbearable

I know I have let him down and the filling that I have disappointed him is unbearable.  I feel sick to my stomach and I cannot stop crying.

I’m so sorry